Life’s a Dance

Do you have any regrets? Have you ever thought that if you had gone left instead of going right things would be different?

Maybe you could have fixed this, stopped that… Why do we do this to ourselves? This is where the pain comes in… When we re-visit the past we can experience feelings of guilt and feeling fear always comes from worrying about the future… Hence the value of the present moment… For when we are living in the present moment we are dancing with the universe…

Lets’ bring up the subject of Destiny vs. Choice… In life is it Destiny that decides our fate or our free will? If you believe it’s choice, then you regard your life as a product of your own decisions… If you believe in destiny, you believe that there are greater forces defining your life’s story…
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Three Feet From Gold

Do you give up at the first sign of opposition? “One of the most common causes of failure is the habit of quitting when one is over taken by temporary defeat”- Napoleon Hill- Author of Think and Grow Rich…

More than five hundred of the most successful men this country has ever known told the author their greatest success came just one step beyond the point at which defeat had overtaken them…. One of the stories in this book is about a man named Darby who many years ago went to Colorado during the gold rush to find his fortune… He staked his claim, bought a pick and a shovel and went to work …

After weeks of digging he struck gold… When this happened he decided to go borrow some money from friends and family to purchase the necessary machinery to finish the job… In doing so he managed to get the first load of gold to pay off his debt and now he was ready for the profits… Then something happened, the vein of gold had disappeared… They desperately kept drilling and finally, they decided to quit…
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More Than Words

Ever heard the saying “actions speak louder than words?” We’ve talked about the importance of communication in all of our relationships, but today I’d like to dig deeper into the expressions of love…

Just as there are many languages spoken on the planet, so, too, there are languages of love. The languages of love are not always expressed in words… Saying “I Love You” is one thing, but to show it, is another… There is so much that can be expressed silently through the actions we take.
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To Be or Not To Be

What is my purpose? Where do I belong and how do I fit in? We are all very special and each and every one of us has our own gifts that we brought into this life with us…

So what’s your passion? What brings you joy? Look deep within and find your true nature, your true beauty, your true colors… Accept your greatness…
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Get In The Game

We’ve all heard the term “When one door closes, another one opens”… That’s because we closed one door before we opened another…Here’s another analogy… Let’s take a look at the transition… When you are climbing up a ladder you can’t move up to the next step until you take your feet off the last one, so why is it that we seem to think that we can hold one door open as we open another?

Let’s take a job for instance… Most people say that before you let go of one job you had better have another one lined up to take it’s place… We say this because we want stability, a comfortable safe place to land… But there are no guarantees…
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The Need To Be Needed

How do you know if you are in a co-dependent relationship? In co-dependent relationships we need to be needed… Whether you have a health issue or you are offering financial support, both parties involved are avoiding their own unhappiness and personal issues… The thought behind this is “If I keep you in need then you’ll never leave me.” This type of exchange is grounded in neediness and control rather than love and respect…
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The Time Is Now

Are you open to change? Are you ready to change? So many of us are afraid of change, but what are we so afraid of? The unknown perhaps…

The definition of change: To make different; cause a transformation; an event that occurs when something passes from one state to another; losing one’s original nature; become different in essence.

Change is inevitable. Life is about transitions, yet many of us attempt to live in a ‘don’t rock the boat’ environment. Most of us like to feel a sense of safety and security in our lives. This sense of security is maintained by things feeling as if they are constant and unchanging. A certain amount of routine is vital for everyone; however, resistance to change is a dead-end street.
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There’s No Time

Originally published on 11/15/2008 - 1:00 p.m. GMT

Have you ever felt like there just is not enough time in the day? To do all the things you feel that you need to… How balanced is your life right now?

In the area of your Career and Finances, Family and Friends, Health and Fitness, Personal Growth and Spirituality, Recreation and Free Time, Romantic Meaningful Relationships, Self Love and Care, Alignment with your Life Purpose…

Stripping everything down and realizing your priorities are very important… However some of us have are priorities all turned around… When we run ourselves ragged we exhaust our options, our minds and our bodies… And without our health we can’t function at all… This is where most of us get stuck … We lose ourselves and we are no longer happy…
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