Published 06/26/2008 - 10:16 a.m. GMT
Dear PVS, what if you have a friend who, for all her complaining about her vampires, keeps inviting them in and never seems able to say “no” to them? Is it proper slaying etiquette to offer her assistance with slaying her vampires? Signed, A Wondering Friend
Dearest Friend, thank you for this wonderful question. First off I want to say that anyone who “cannot say stop inviting vampires into their lives” and “seems unable to say no” to them is most likely feeling powerless over their vampires because they (as hosts) have not yet accepted responsibility for the invitations they extended to their vampires in the first place.
The rule is: if we cannot accept responsibility for our invitations, then we will not find our power to revoke them.
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